Valid points on both sides, but Carmela had knowingly turned a blind eye to Tony's infidelity in the past -- even telling Father Phil that she viewed the goomars as a form of masturbation. She was fine with the big house, the cash on hand, the royal fawning of the wives of Tony's underlings, the Mercedes, et al.

All told, what idiot gives his mistress his HOME phone number? I know that affair started in the late 90s when cell phones weren't as prevalent, but come on?