Wow, a lot of BS getting flung here. Plenty of nastiness, too.

Women make choices. Damn straight. And I respect them all - the women who choose to stay at home, the ones who choose to work outside the home. IMO, the women's liberation movement is only successful if all of women's choices are encouraged and celebrated.

And you can all go on and on about choices and that's the dynamic of your relationship, etc., but women carry the majority of the household duties, whether they work outside the home in addition to that or not. And it becomes more and more unfair as it's NOT a choice for many but a necessity because of the high cost of housing, utilities, healthcare, food, gasoline - the basics.

If you have children, just think of school functions you've attended - class trips, parent/teacher conferences, those kind of things. Think of who you mostly see in the hallways - the moms. I find it hard to believe that they're all stay at home moms.