No,the middle ground is to stop being the homophobic zealot you are, and mind your own business.
You don't know me, I barely posted in this thread, and I am a zealot? With such an attitude you will only create more homophobes (I am not one.... yet).
I don't know you, but I know you posted an illogical dichotomy that reveals your point of view.
"Io sono stanco, sono imbigliato, and I wan't everyone here to know, there ain't gonna be no trouble from me..Don Corleone..Cicc' a port!"