It's nothing like that actually. Rape and child molestation are bad by definition, whereas being gay is not (except for in the eyes of God, which is irrelevant to the point.) You can't compare one to the other, because the former involves performing sexual acts on someone who either doesn't have the ability to consent, or has the ability, but didn't give it. I don't know how many times this has to be pointed out to you, but I know it is the last time I'm explaining it.