It's sort of like the photo of Barney at his granddaughter's baptism or whatever. If a photo of the whole family was posted here, I could see a problem. But it was just a small photo of Barney's face. Likewise, all we have here (so far) is discussion about his wife dying. These are mob forums, needless to say, and Barney is a major mob figure. So, just about anything (mob related or personal) is going to bring discussion. See the Gotti's. Heck, I wouldn't be surprised if Capeci mentions it in one of his upcoming articles.