the idea that the government is even involved in this in the first place is a symptom of a much bigger problem. this should be a church issue, period. if the church in question doesn't recognize same sex marriage, tough shit, find or start a religion that does. i could care less though if someone wants to marry the same sex, or if they want to have multiple wives, makes no difference to me. after all, even if married couples aren't having sex, they are still fucking each other over.