i don't really care for the bashing and sterotyping of southers either. from my experience, they will do more for you than the majority of people living in a urban setting. just a quick example, a few years ago, me and a friends father broke down on the side of the road in west virginia, out of cell phone range, on a very deserted road. the first car that passed stopped by and tried to help jump the car. when that didn't work, this lady drove us 15 miles in the opposite direction of the way she was traveling to a small gas station. on top of that, she absolutely refused any money. now, people are more than willing to help out here in nj, but its the exception rather than the rule, down south, it seems to be the complete opposite!