In my first post in the "Mob Myths, Facts and Realities" thread, I wrote that getting made in the Mob is the worst thing that could happen to you, for a whole bunch of reasons, including some of those you posted.
Ntra la porta tua lu sangu � sparsu, E nun me mporta si ce muoru accisu... E s'iddu muoru e vaju mparadisu Si nun ce truovo a ttia, mancu ce trasu.