And also the reason I had to name my son after my husband's father...for the honor and respect. That was a huge battle I lost, cause even I have to answer to somebody.

lol Thats not somethin that you need to be sad about,for example in my family tradition is goin on for years,usualy the first child is named after the dads father and the second after the mothers father or the grandmother and list goes on...thats one example for family honor,at least thats my opinion