In 1986 in Sicily there was mafioso Giuseppe Messina. He was in his car with two of his sons. One was 12 and the other 14. A white van with two members of rival clan Stidda pulled up to the car and blew Giuseppe's brains out all over his boys. One son went on to live the same life of his father to avenge his fathers death in the name of his honor. The other son stayed legit to this day and has nothing to do with his family (other 3 brothers are mafioso too). This was his way to honor his father...by staying clean.