Something else I was going to mention, as just an aside, is Gaetano's daughter (maybe 12 years old, not sure) appeared on an Italian tv show awhile back and Gaetano was sitting front row, while she dedicated a song to him. It caused a huge uproar that a boss would be able to sit there while his daughter sang to him on state tv.
Go to :45 to see a clip
Okla: Lie to no one. If there 's somebody close to you, you'll ruin it with a lie. If they're a stranger, who the fuck are they you gotta lie to them?
