Wilson, let me tell you without a shadow of a doubt, that carmela (note spelling) is most definitely a woman. She is married with a family, and her posts (particularly in the Organized Crime/Real Life forum) are quite knowledgeable and always worth reading.

However...

There is a person on the GangsterBB who joined fairly recently named Camarel (again, note spelling) who is definitely male. When I am not paying proper attention (or perhaps when I've been paying too much attention to whatever spirits fill my glass), letters play tricks on me and I have to look twice to see whose post it is that I am reading.

In other words, do your best not to confuse the two!

Signor V.

"For me, there's only my wife..."

"Sure I cook with wine - sometimes I even add it to the food!"

"When life itself seems lunatic, who knows where madness lies?"

"It was a grass harp... And we listened."

"Do any human beings ever realize life while they live it? Every, every minute?"

"No. Saints and poets, maybe... they do some."