well Carmela it all depends on the situation right i mean if he shows up unexpectedly with 4 goons then you would have to stall dont you think? Lets not be to nieve but then you set up to meet him simply by telling him you have is money then y0u get the chance to GET EVEN
All they were saying ( i think ) was when family is insulted or threatened you act they weren't detailing a plan to bring down a gangster lol.
