i figured out Ramona is dating Gambino associate Joseph "Joe Boy" Sclafani

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/staten_island/wiseguy_goes_to_pot_feds_IkoCG4y3A8Rmf1pIVHwm0H

In todays episode, when she discusses it with Karen, Karen says the headline "Wiseguy goes to pot:feds" which is the article above

Tommy Shots: They want me running the family, don't they know I have a young wife?
Sal Vitale: (laughs) Tommy, jump in, the water's fine.