I watched the mob wives show for 3 minutes...and the very first thing that came to mind was
scene in Goodfellas where Karen is talking about meeting the other wives
"...they had bad skin..and wore too much makeup"
American tv and films 7 times out of ten project stereotypes about various groups. more subtle before but these reality shows crank it up.no context..just caricatures
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You figure though that authentic bad guys and killers aren't gonna be married to Mrs. Cunningham or Claire Huxtable.