That there Yogi is the answer, in past times when married and only had 1 child, lol but most of the neighbor kids which were many you would think I had at least 16. But those were the best days of my life. No matter how stressed I was I could lighten up with those kids around. And for the most part the wife enjoyed it to. And to this day they all remember me and those times and they have kids now. Yepper , Skipper you have the right idea of TRUE LIFE and WHAT really is IMPORTANT.