I believe her when she says her father was dead set against it. She doesn't know what happened. Like I said, he probably felt forced to do it. Everybody knows it was an accident, but him being who he is, you can't just sit back and let this guy drive around in the car that killed your son. It wasn't a matter of getting even. It was a matter of how it looked and John Gotti couldn't afford to look like a punk.