Thanks guys. Now I can tell my mother that a few people from a gangsta board do not think I look like a dyke.

(Pat, my heavy clubbing days are over. It seems I'm mostly in workout clothes because I run everyday and want to get Pilates certified which does not lend itself to high heels)

Wait..are you saying I'm stuck in the 80s? The big hair and shoulder pads?

(and I hope you meant feral not fetal, I think)