Where else was Connie gonna turn? She wanted solace, sympathy, etc. like any of us would. As far as Barzini goes, he lost nothing by trying evenif the hit never materialized. Connie's blow-up at Michael was because she was thinking of herself and projecting a life without a husband et al.
"Generosity. That was my first mistake." "Experience must be our only guide; reason may mislead us." "Instagram is Twitter for people who can't read."
