And, yes. It IS a big deal. Because it's a PROMISE. You get married, you take a vow. You PROMISE to forsake all others until death. If you don't intend to keep the promise, don't get married.
I've been married 27 years to the Col and I have never cheated on him. SB is right. Marriage is a sacred vow you make to each other before God. Not only is she dying of cancer she has the pain of being betrayed and IMO that pain is just as bad as the pain she has from the cancer.
