It's a terrible fact of life that every married person encounters today in one way or another. You either personally experience infidelity or know someone who has or is going to. Bottom line is that there are no winners and lives are never the same afterwords. I like Jon Bon Jovi's answer when he is questioned about his devotion to his wife and if he has ever strayed - he replies; "I don't need to because I got it right the first time." I would like to personally echoe his statement.