I know what you mean. It's just like the time he told jonny sack about the joke made about his wifes weight. The trouble that could have caused Tony. He wanted to go to war over that alone. You see Tony and Jonnys relationship going downhill from there. And the kid that Tony said to his mother, whilst in hospital, would not come to no harm. Paulie goes down to the harbour and beats him up.... directly disobeying Tony!!! And when his asked about the joke by Tony on the boat, he lies.... In one scene he says " I go out of my way for that prick Jonny to make him think i like him". How many people do you think hes gonna go out of his way for? His mothers a religious whore. His lived his life being something hes not. So much for loyalty....