Whisper, My biggest concern with porn would be diseases. Sorry to be a kill-joy. Anyway, I know a little bit about getting screwed for a living - I'm in commercial real estate. UGH!

Blib, You're not exactly old. If you want to have a baby, there's nothing stopping you (aside from the fact that you don't actually become impregnated, carry the baby and then give birth). I'm sure that being a step-parent is very difficult. There must be about 50 fine lines to straddle on a daily basis. It sounds like you and your girlfriend need to have a private talk about your role.

The one thing that my husband and I agreed on is that we would never disagree about discipline in front of the children. If I think he's being an ass, or he thinks I'm being a bitch, we'll discuss it in private, but never in front of the girls. They would attempt to divide and conquer immediately.

And just think! If you have a boy, he might grow up to be a porn star named Whisper!!