But Silvio crumbled under the pressure...and we know of Vito's secret life that was bound to be found out sooner or later (and was), negating him as boss...

Paulie was a follower and not cut out for the job...

Chris might have become Boss after Sil and Vito disqualified themselves, but wouldn't have lasted long because of the drug problem and lack of respect from the Capos...

Bobby, Patsy or Carlo? I don't think so...

Essentially, the DiMeo Crime Family would have been leaderless...