Now you understand what men have been going thru for years.

All that big wedding stuff is overrated and over priced.

Instead, why not take that 50 thousand that you would spend and put it as a down payment on a house for them.

At least if they split up in the next few years, you still get to keep half of it in the divorce process.-

and those wedding gifts suck anyway.

Only kidding....relax, have a few drinks and don't sweat anything! If they are old enough to get hitched, then they are old enough to figure out how to get everything done.

You should just worry about the seating for the fifty or so Board members who want to come for a free PARTY!