We are talking about the mob here, yer pretty much not gonna get a faithful husband (unless you coun't Mikey, but do you want to be in Kay's place?.) So I think that Sonny is a "good" husband. Mikey I think is good as far as he really cared about Kay and when he thought she was leaving he was trying to get her to stay. Sigh... I dunno. Like I said in the mob, "good enough" is the best you can hope for! lol