Let JRCX film them from afar while you have a casual conversation about their past with them. This way they won't feel as though they're right in front of the camera.
As for the Asbury park thing, perhaps you could incorporate your father and some of his old stories in that also. You did say that he was from Asbury Park, right?
Don Cardi
Five - ten years from now, they're gonna wish there was American Cosa Nostra. Five - ten years from now, they're gonna miss John Gotti.
