You're a great addition to the boards, Longneck. I've really enjoyed 'getting to know you' the past year or so. And it's sad that it often takes a tragedy to get someone (me) to say stuff like that.

Be strong for your wife. This IS a tragedy, yes. But it's NOT the worst day of your life. You still have your wife and you have EACH OTHER. And you have us..we're your family, too!

BTW: I think that adopting a child has got to be about the COOLEST thing that anyone could ever do.