I think you're all mean.
You wouldn't think that if you saw me about 45 minutes ago.... I was totally drenched to the skin... the guy from whom I bought dinner was nice enough to put it in a box (when he saw the rain coming down) but I had trouble getting it into the car and ended up spilling some of my dinner.... I then had to forge a six foot wide stream about 4" deep in front of my driveway only to fumble with the keys as I was balancing my dinner trying to open the door while the rain from the roof was pouring down on me.