I'd have to watch it again to be 100% certain. You may be right. But for some reason I think that he didn't go over there right away. As a matter of fact, now that I am writing this, I remember that the incident with Meadow took place in the evening and when she got home, she told them.

It looked to me like Tony went there the next day.

But regardless, it's really a moot point because the bottom line is that Tony has been punking out with Phil and as each week goes by, he's become less and less like the mob boss that he is supposed to be. His uncle and his mother were right. He's a woos!