He kept retuning the radio. Plus he was conversing with Tony the whole time. He even looked over at Tony several times. What was he fidgeting with except the radio? What were the odd movements? He had enough acuity to retrieve a cd and put it in the player. Staring? Isn't that called watching where you're driving? I still don't get it.

So, were they cousins on Tony's mother's or father's side. I don't remember her and Tony together too much or the cousin reference.