How can somebody listen to music for the "wrong" reasons, as opposed to any "right" reasons? Again, very elitist way of thinking. Are there any rules written as to how we should approach music?

Spears might sing a song which is meant to be foot-tapped to or hummed in the shower; so if people tune into MTV and tap their foots and then go and hum the tune in the shower, they're listening for the wrong reasons?

There's no reason for Art to exist, so how can there be any wrong way of consuming it?