I only forgot the smiley behind the word, and it should have been seen in a context. The person who I called it was DJ, and he knows I was only joking. I hope.

Then again, if one has to know each and every context and situation, that's difficult, so it's very understandable if you judge on absolutes, e.g. no words like asshole, regardless the situation. Okay, mea culpa.

But, I also wonder why I was banned immediately, while when DVC did the same thing as me, he was asked two times to take back his words, on which he replied with 'no'.
The mod's mood again, I guess.