I have to tell you, an overly-groomed man is as much of a turn-off as an under-groomed one. I don't like men with manicures, or who pay too much attention to their eyebrows or hair, or get highlights. I like them to be neat, pressed and smell good. After that, I get the feeling that they would be nagging me to get to the salon more often. And overly-buff guys in wife-beaters are another turn-off. I say Hail to the man with sexy arms and shoulders, but too much is still too much. You know what I mean? Am I making any sense??