DS - In The Wedding Planner with Jennifer Lopez, she dismissed most grooms as NID - Not Into Details. I know that my husband certainly wasn't. He just wanted to rent his tux and show up. The only thing he was semi-interested in was in hiring the band. Other than that, could've cared less if we were married in a cornfield.

Btw, Mr. Babe and I are going to be married 20 years this October. I mentioned to him that friends of ours are going to renew their vows on the beach while on vacation this summer. He mocked the whole thing and asked if it was because they didn't get it right the first time. He also quoted lines from Shawshank Redemption ("They send you here for Life, and that's just what they take"), since he was wondering if we were married longer than Andy Dufresne spent at Shawshank. I guess I'm not getting any romantic vow renewal ceremony on the beach!!