I'm not being cold. Just statin' the facts, ma'am. Only an ultra-sensitive, emotionally starved, insecure person would actually SEE it as cold-blooded. And of course noone here is like that! :p
As far as jumping in an ocean - find a warm place and swim with a friend! When done right, no worries - the boys will be happy....
I have a tendency to wear my heart on my sleeve - I have a history of taking off my shirt.....