Wow DB, I admit when I read that story, your name flashed through my head as someone I know lives there but I NEVER would have DREAMED you would be personally affected. I echo the sentiments of all your fantasy bb friends here...Such a horrible catastrophe and often times we feel we are useless,like we can't do enough, but your friends are VERY lucky to have you and your support during this time and in the future as the memory of this tragedy will most likely stay with them for a while. Hang in there. Don't forget to lean on YOUR support system when YOU need to. I know we are all a pretty good set of ears around here.....Of course PL is the one with the pair of burning ones....