I voted 'Smart, affectionate wife'.

Kay most certainly was not a victim...because though she believed Michael when he said the Family would one day be legitimate...she knew full well of the business he was in with his father and the world she'd be marrying into.
Not to mention the fact that she apparently wasted no time taking him back after hearing nothing from him for several years. NOT a victim.

She was certainly NOT in the wrong place at the wrong time, because when you think of this relationship with Michael that lasted all those years....what the heck is the WRONG place and what the heck is the WRONG time?

If anyone were in the wrong place at the wrong time...it would've been poor Appolonia.

And she may have been at times a pain in the ass...but again, that's going back to the promise Michael made that one day the Family would be legitimate. She was only calling him on his word and then taking action when she FINALLY began to realized it was a promise he could not keep.

So, until there was no other road to take...I'd have to say Kay was a smart, affectionate wife - AND mother.

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