Have we addressed exactly why it was this incident that finally caused Carmella to snap? Was it because it was "brought into their home," or was it because Tony was banging a one-legged woman and she took that as a huge insult. I'm sure that when Tony was banging the strippers she figured that it was purely physical, but then she hears about the one-legged Russian person and she couldn't take it.

All of that mumbo-jumbo about her being mad about Tony messing around with someone she liked, and someone that she shared some vodka with was just BS. Carm was pissed that Tony cheated with someone physically inferior to her.