One would think so, TIS, but Tony is REALLY looking to filling a void in his life....some fun with a woman he loves. He tried with Carm (with the cold water in the shower) and she rejected his stunt with much anger. I almost felt sorry for Tony then (it was an attempt for the two of them to share a light moment). He had to laugh when the salt shaker came off over his steak, so we know (at least) that he can laugh at his own misfortune, too.