What ya are doing there is stereotiping (???) the fellow Italian-American community! Look at me, for God sake! I wear brighty silk shirts, golden ties and use a Silvio Dante haircut... Does that mean I am a goombah??? Forget about it! I am a proudful and honest Italian American, and I love my country enough to say on the Fourth Of July that I am a rigtheous man!
Well, what I can say...I'm italian and I understand you. Anyway I don't feel any offensive in all this discussion, it's only about different culture and filmography, if you know in Italy you'll never see a mobster dining in a restaurant dressed that way, and you'll never see any Don Vito go and buy some orange at the market, it's a little bit different...at least for me, I lived for one year in Palermo and I never seen any associate or even a kind of scene like this.
