There was a tv movie a while back about the Bannano family, with Ben Gazzara and Eric Roberts, but I don't remember the title. Is that the one you are talking about? That was pretty good. I think it was made in maybe the early 90's (not sure though).
"Mankind must put an end to war before war puts an end to mankind. War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." JFK
