This is the random discussion, I need some married women to talk to and vent about this.....

My husband has been having...well there's know other way to put this even though it sounds babyish....accidents....he's been so embarrased, I finally got him to go to the doctor...we founf out his has total incontinence, bladder and bowel, sugery wont fix it, so the only solution is ...Depends! He is so embarassed and every time I tryo to comfort him he get even more embarassed....He gets mad because I call them diapers, but thats what they are! I mean yeah there are some depends thats are more like underwear, but the kind he needs are diapers. I help him out when he needs changed, but that just makes it worse. But he takes forever and it would be easier if he just let me do it. He is starting to and I just hope it not for the wrong reason...The thing is we just got married two years ago, he is only 24, but has developed a condition....I think he's age has something to do with how embarassed he gets, but I am his wife....he shouldn't be embarassed....but then again Im having trouble with the thought of changing more than our kids diapers (if we ever have any).....

-G