I was not optimistic that it could've worked out. He was going to study aerospace. That would've kept him busy enough not to think about any girl at all. Also on my part, it was quite impossible to find a job out there. Working visas are very restrict, they issue the visa for a certain employer, that means if you decide to change your job you'd have to apply for another visa. Each visa used to cost around $1000 plus $3000 attorney fees for the employer, and the one I found made me pay for the visa myself. Had I found another job in Indiana, it would've been another $4000 on top of the one I already had to make payment for it. That's if I was lucky enough to find a job offer that would consider hiring a Middle Eastern, after Sep. 11.