I don't know your family, but if it were my family, i would immediately question if the daughter was not scamming relatives out of money for her own use LOL... especially since say she is working for the first time, etc... who knows, maybe they will get a gift, but perhaps she is skimming off the top too lol... too funy... if it were me, I would send them a gift certificate to applebees or chilis or target, or something like that, and send it to them direct and not from the daughter... i think you cover all bases just like that...