SVSG, Thank you for clarifying your position. The reason I mentioned that his mother could be arrested was to illustrate to Pat that he was putting his family in jeopardy, which is truly bad, not as the only reason she should throw it away. Sometimes when you write things, they can be misunderstood, so I'm glad that we both had a chance to make ourselves understood.

Mig, I can appreciate how hard it must've been for you to grow up without your mother. I'm sure that you cherish her memory, though, even though that's hardly enough.