If I got someone pregnant, I'd consider myself a juvenile asshole for possibly ruining the future I strived for. But I simply wouldn't tell her to abort it, because I see it the same way as killing a human, which is probably hard for you to believe. I don't think of it as some pre-existent presence.

There are a few guys and girls I know at school who feel the same way, and oddly enough they are the more mature of the people I usually talk to. One day I overheard the guy in a couple say "mission aborted" referring to the situation if he got her pregnant. Things like this piss me off.

If I was in that situation I wouldn't be running from a problem as a convenience. I'd simply have to adjust my life for this huge change.

Then again, there are children dying in the crossfire of war, so I should be guilty over my selfish stance.