Paul,

I'm not the kind that usually flatters other posters and I try to do my own fight. But I just had the urge to say that it is very heart warming that a man tries to understand some of women's stance on this issue this meticulously and be willing to give them the choice and space and trust them with what they might choose. That must be the hardest thing to do, keeping distance from the testosterone driven mentality of ordinary men to have control over women.

I also wanted to say this is very hot in a man. I'm willing to put my career on hold to have you child Plaw, nice gene pool you've got there.