Originally posted by DonMichaelCorleone:
BOTH genders can be shallow.
Totally.
And women always say we'll never understand men, either. So it's totally not one-sided. But there are so many girls that I just don't understand, and even a few guys that I do understand... there are exceptions to everything, you really can't generalize.
I just want to call something to your attention that you may never have thought of. I'm almost 100% sure that there are girls out there who have had mad crushes on you, but that you never knew or cared or even noticed them because they weren't hot. It happens all the time... one of the most commonly used phrases when high school girls are talking is, "Why won't he notice me?" or "I bet he doesn't even know I'm alive." Every girl, even the hot ones. I'm not saying this to make you feel better about yourself, I'm saying it so you'll realize that you're not the only victim of some cruel cosmic joke.
So number one, you're definitely not the only person going through this, and number two, I'm sure you've rejected girls too (whether intentionally or inadvertently). It's not worth getting depressed over, it really isn't. You'll meet a million other girls, some of them hot, some of them ugly, some of them average. Some will like you, and some will not-- just like you don't like every girl you meet, right?