Everything would have to be taken in context here for me. Murder is obviously the 'no returner' but rape can devastate a life to such an extent maybe death is on par for that person!
Betrayal I can and have lived with I believe treason is still punishable by death in law in UK (they'd probably never use it, tho they should for terrorists I think)
Dont even get me started on crimes against children......I know I would rather be raped, or anything as opposed to a child having to suffer that and I'm going out on a limb here but I would imagine most women would rather they were raped than their/any child would be.